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Boyat! Ever heard of this term before? well even if u haven’t I’m sure you’ve seen it: a girl in her abaya walking talking like a man or short hair girl wearing loose jeans and a head band in all dresses wedding .
Well this weird phenomenon was here for ages but it was never publicly spoken until recent days, and it’s basically is homosexuality you know girls liking other girls blah blah blah. But the only thing is, it’s not just that, these girls are trying to look like men in order to be with other girls! This is funny .Because they would assume that when they have a relationship between a female and female who seemingly looking like a man, is normal.
And it’s so annoying because we the Qatari nation choose to ignore it or settle for it ! Yes can you believe it some moms would allow their daughters to be gay and have gay relation instead of one with a man!! And you have to believe me because it happened to me my mom would actually let me sleep over that man looking cigarette smoking chick and kill me if she catch me talking to a guy. Again good reputation and perfect image above religion, human nature and rights!
Of course that leads us to the questions how? Why? When? In my opinion this is the cause of the big barrier made between men and women and the fact that both have secluded into two closed societies, and they had to get by I guess LOL .
I’m a freedom writer and I do respect all peoples ideas, decisions and sex rights LOL but in this one it’s not a free choice it’s an alternative plan which ends up as a real problem , of course none of these girls would fight for gay rights actually even though that they like girls they all know that they will end up with a man and it’s ok for them because it would be a whole new experience!! It’s a pity it’s a disease, its sickness and pretends. It needs to be acknowledged and treated, same goes to men of course, need I say more…
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Andeee said
so basically a lesbian in ...so basically a lesbian in other words... yes - have heard the term over here and appartently rife in the public schools....
superwoman said
its everywhere sprcialy ...its everywhere sprcialy schools
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
superwoman said
Dot.com ...LOL it is offensive and obviously needs no introduction, just curious what was ur thread about???
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
ashrafalan said
gud night ...gud night
ashrafalan said
sweet dreems to you ...sweet dreems to you
angie35 said
sweet dreams ...sleep well to all you people
Sugar Qtr said
Plagiarism. ~*Speak when you ...Plagiarism.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
Sugar Qtr said
and superwoman, I have no ...and superwoman, I have no idea what you are pretending to be, but you seriously need to see a shrink about your case.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
one_shot said
very weird,and shocking ...very weird,and shocking thread especially for me
not because it contains some weird info or something we can't believe that it is happening in gulf area...no , but because i was planning to make similar post in QL regarding this matter which is dangerous
i made a personal study about how corruption reached to our community,regarding this matter. i will try to post the resault in my next posts, and i hope that it could not harm my personal me, because it has some socking info, and some people will not like what they are reading
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One Shot....Stay out of it. ...One Shot....Stay out of it. You know what I mean :-)
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whyteknight said
superwoman what's this now. ...superwoman what's this now. I expected better from you.
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s_isale said
already discussed a year ...already discussed a year back.
superwoman likes to stir the waters thats all.
Nic said
Superwoman, This particular ...Superwoman,
This particular post seems confusing or perhaps you are misinformed that homosexuality is not a choice but people are born like that. It’s their nature, as the religious would say, it’s the way God created them. There is no cure for this as it’s what the person is. Any attempt to “cure” would only destroy the person.
Now how societies deal with this, depends on their level education and civilization.
Here in Qatar, as many other things, it’s a taboo and heads are hidden on the sand!
genesis said
Hey superwoman :) It’s ...Hey superwoman :)
It’s actually surprising to read this post from you!
Being an outcast yourself!
You never know their circumstances…
Like you expect people to accept what you are, you should at least learn to accept others
I’m not saying that I find homosexuality acceptable, But I hold no prejudice against them.
live & let live, simply.
Let their families to deal with them. They’re already being prosecuted by the whole society
Apparently, your mentality is no deferent than the society you loath ;)
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Nic : "....This particular ...Nic : "....This particular post seems confusing or perhaps you are misinformed that homosexuality is not a choice but people are born like that. It’s their nature, as the religious would say, it’s the way God created them. There is no cure for this as it’s what the person is. Any attempt to “cure” would only destroy the person "
Nobody is born homosexual. Homosexuality is a disease and in some cases it is a choice.
Olive said
So what if they want to look ...So what if they want to look and act like boys? That's there business. If you want freedom for yourself you need to accept that others want it to.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
Olive said
Lebaneseman do you actually ...Lebaneseman do you actually know any homosexuals?
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Olive whether i know or i ...Olive whether i know or i dont know. my P.o.v will be still the same .
Nic said
LeBaNeSeMaN,LOL... do you ...LeBaNeSeMaN,
LOL... do you realize how non-sense your comment is?
Please, go and consult what science says about it and then tell us what you found out ;)
LeBaNeSeMaN said
sugardady I am not a doctor. ...sugardady I am not a doctor. I said it a disease so it needs doctors, specilists (social and psycological), etc...
Oryx said
lebanese Man ...A disease is something that is caused by infection from others: like TB
How can you catch the disease that makes you homosexual?
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Nic and tell me which ...Nic and tell me which science tells you that these people are born homosexual?
Oryx said
Olive ...Of course he does - but he is just unaware of it.
Olive said
If you actually knew some ...If you actually knew some homosexual people Lebaneseman you're Point of View would change in a instant. Right now your point of view is based off homophobia and probably insecurity about your own sexual orientation. If you were confident about your sexuality you wouldn't fear homosexuals.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Oryx aha and all diseases ...Oryx aha and all diseases come a result of infection from others?
Oryx said
Disease ...If something is a disease (which is caused by infection) you don't need a psychologist that is for mental health issues.
Olive said
Wow, if homosexuality is ...Wow, if homosexuality is contagious how have I stayed straight with all the homosexual friends I have?!? :P
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
superwoman said
reply to s_isale ...excuse me ? discussed before what does that mean ? the question u need to ask is: its it done? is it cured? no that’s why i write the thread
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
Nic said
LeBaNeSeMaN, Science is ...LeBaNeSeMaN,
Science is universal, please do some homework, i aint your tutor ;)
LeBaNeSeMaN said
I fear them !looool r u ...I fear them !looool r u nuts?
If a man says that these homos are sick and they need treatment , then he will be accused of homophobia.
Oryx said
Lebanese Man ...Yes that is what a disease is - infection from others.
check the dictionary
http://dictionary.ca...
Maybe you are confusing the meaning of the word disease with illness or syndrome
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Nic, you always think that ...Nic, you always think that you are the only one here that knows english ! and now you are the only "scientific" person !
Olive said
Yes you fear them ...Yes you fear them Lebaneseman, it's quite obvious from what you're writing. And yes, what you said defines homophobia quite well.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
Oryx said
Olive ...I was thinking the same thing about myself! LOL
If it were a disease I would be some big heffer bull dyke...which as you know I most certainly am not.
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Oryx , ok fine ! thanks for ...Oryx , ok fine ! thanks for the clarification , this thread is about "boyat" . It's not an english vocabulary class !! ufff what type of people are on this website !
Sandman69 said
Why do you all even care how ...Why do you all even care how someone else lives their life. Are you so insecure that you are afraid you may be recruited and drawn into this lifestyle by these people. Are you so vain that you think you might be raped by these people. Leave them alone and let them live their lives in peace, without your holy-er than thou opinions.
I am a man and I love women, but I am secure enough to not let others lifestyles not affect my life.
It only takes a single voice to start a revolution!
superwoman said
reply to Nic ... ...let me tell u something these girls never been with men before they don’t know how it feels like or their feeling towards them we are raised to think that talking to men is haram and taboo and u really don’t get a chance to mix therefore they don’t know their sexual orientation they like girls because they're the only one they're exposed to .
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
Nic said
LeBaNeSeMaN, Why that ...LeBaNeSeMaN,
Why that inferior complex all of the sudden? I would never think such non-sense, common we are debating a topic! Did you run (yet again) out of valid arguments?!
If I bother you, don’t listen to me, listen to others, you may learn something new about yourself today ;)
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Olive, i told you. People ...Olive, i told you. People like you always stereotype men that don't accept homosexuality as "homophobians" :D
whyteknight said
I also like girls ...I also like girls superwoman, nothing wrong with that :P
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Oryx said
Lebanese Man ...Logical thinking people who are trying to understand and get clarity.
Why don't you say thanks for someone taking the time to explain something????
Well said Sandy - I don't care and who am I to stand in judgement of how consenting adults live?
Olive said
I think what superwoman is ...I think what superwoman is trying to say, which is something I've thought myself given what seems to be an incredibly high percentage of homosexuals in this country (especially amongst the local population) is that many are not born homosexual or are natural homosexuals, but become homosexual because it's the only option open to them and because of a fear of the opposite sex which is instilled by the culture.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Nic i will flag ur comment ...Nic i will flag ur comment as offensive.
superwoman said
reply to genesis ...they are not homosexual how do u explaine them getting married to men? and even if they were why are they gettign married to men?
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
Olive said
Because you are Lebaneseman. ...Because you are Lebaneseman. It's not a stereotype. If you think homosexuality is an "illness, disease, etc" then it's because you are homophobic and can't accept that it's a natural thing.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
Sandman69 said
Superwoman....With that ...Superwoman....With that logic , that clearly explains why so many arabic men are closet homosexuals. Its their society that pushes them together and since they can not socialize with women, they have sex with each other, or their house boy, or their driver or some random guy they meet in the mall.
Right or wrong
Olive said
Ummm, they don't have a ...Ummm, they don't have a choice superwoman?
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
Oryx said
Olive ...Yep and there was an article in a newspaper last year laying the blame at 'Western Educators' for not condemning and of course the evil influence of our culture.
So there were no homosexuals in this part of the world till Lawrence of Arabia came along???
Blame it on the Brits!!!
Nic said
Superwoman, If they were ...Superwoman,
If they were born lesbians, they will be forever lesbians. If they were born straight, they will be forever straight.
Whatever they nature, regardless their sad situation, their nature (the way they were born) will emerge when they grow up!
You appear to be an educated person, I suggest you read more reliable sources about this topic and you will see that you will never risk becoming one (if your nature was not conceived that way) and those who are will never become something else either. It just a fact of life!
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Olive, homophobia exists in ...Olive, homophobia exists in the minds of people that do blame God and "Nature" for every single human social and psycological disorder or syndrome(maybe my friend Oryx will accept this one :) ).
Nic said
Superwoman, If they were ...Superwoman,
If they were born lesbians, they will be forever lesbians. If they were born straight, they will be forever straight.
Whatever they nature, regardless their sad situation, their nature (the way they were born) will emerge when they grow up!
You appear to be an educated person, I suggest you read more reliable sources about this topic and you will see that you will never risk becoming one (if your nature was not conceived that way) and those who are, will never become something else either. It just a fact of life!
Oryx said
Super ...In any morally strict society gay people will get married.
I saw it a lot in Mexico. They get married and its a smoke screen to draw attention away from their sexuality. Marriage ironically gives them more freedom as they are conforming to society and people don't scrutinize their behaviour so much.
Olive said
Not necessarily Nic, many ...Not necessarily Nic, many "straight" people experiment with homosexuality. Especially when it's the only option open to them. Human sexuality is a lot more fluid than people think.
Lebaneseman, obviously you know that homophobia is wrong, that's why you refuse to admit you are homophobic. You can't say in one hand that you think homosexuals are unnatural and need medical help and than say in another that you aren't homophobic. It doesn't make sense. Admit you're homophobic and then we can all ignore you and your narrow minded opinions.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
Oryx said
Leban ...It is not about me agreeing or not its about the definition of the word.... I don't write dictionaries.
Homophobia isn't about blaming - its just about having a 'fear or dislike' that is what a phobia is. Thus you are homophobic.
superwoman said
very important ...This thread is not attacking homosexuals I LOVE them because they are free spirits and brave for to live their life according to what they feel, this thread is about girls faking homosexuality for sexual relief until marriage and if there is a Qatari lesbian couple how is willing to love and fight I’ll praise for them but there is not !!!!! so WTH??!!
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
Nic said
LeBaNeSeMaN, Which part of ...LeBaNeSeMaN,
Which part of any of my comment was offensive to you?
superwoman said
reply to NIC ...ok u think I'm lesbian? I did have a girl friend when I was younger in school only did because i thought that i should because everybody does but when i grow up with more male interaction I found out they I like men and MEN only LOL so go figure
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Olive, you are asking me to ...Olive, you are asking me to admit? is it an investigation :D
Olive, for the 1000 times i tell you that i dont fear these pussy cats.
you know i wish more straight men turn into homos, maybe the ratio of Women/Men will be modified :P
whyteknight said
Ok here is a question since ...Ok here is a question since we are on the subject, how do you react when a homosexual person hits on you. A guy was trying to pick me up at Sheraton last night and I was too shocked to say anything :P
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LeBaNeSeMaN said
Nic, I am ready to discuss a ...Nic, I am ready to discuss a topic with people like Olive and Oryx not with you. Don't address me in any of your future comments :)
Nic said
Superwoman, Ok then, it’s ...Superwoman,
Ok then, it’s not about homosexuality. It’s about personal choices to seek sexual satisfaction.
Again in those cases, it’s a personal choice based on the life conditions these individuals find themselves in.
Again, we shouldn't pin-point fingers, it’s their personal lives and no one should interfere (unless you are being victimized by them - sexually abused - but that will be an entire different debate).
Oryx said
WK - LOL ...a)Talk about your wife/girlfriend
then
b)Just look stone cold - and say 'I'm not interested'.
Was his name Pajju?
Lebanese man you insult homosexuals which means you dislike them which means you are homophobic
DaRuDe said
Lesbians ...did some one say lesbians
where who is lesbian???
Oryx said
Lebanese Man ...Its not your website - so you can't dictate who replies or not.... its an open forum
Nic has the freedom of choice to reply to who he likes
Olive said
LOL /-a-t-/ Lebaneseman. ...LOL /-a-t-/ Lebaneseman. Alright, keep living in your dream world. I hope one day you become confident enough in your sexuality to accept others.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
superwoman said
Olive u get it I like how u ...Olive u get it I like how u think leberal, thank you "Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
Rizks said
DaRuDe lebaneseman is ...DaRuDe lebaneseman is Lesbian. Kindly PM him for ur needs.....:)

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Nic said
LeBaNeSeMaN, That’s what I ...LeBaNeSeMaN,
That’s what I thought, I haven’t offended you but somehow you let yourself feel threaten!
Your wish is granted.
You may however, if you wish so, continue to express your opinions towards any of my comments ;)
whyteknight said
lol Oryx no it wasn't Pajju. ...lol Oryx no it wasn't Pajju. The guy hardly spoke any English, he just kept on repeating, would you like to come to my place and when I said No, he kept on asking why.. lol Coz I am straight dude :P
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LeBaNeSeMaN said
Oryx he has the choice to ...Oryx he has the choice to reply to me and i have the choice to flag him each time he addresses me
DaRuDe loool, I missed that? who said lesbians? ha?
Nic said
Thanks Oryx ;) ...Thanks Oryx ;)
DaRuDe said
who is lesbian ...just come out and accept it for once. quick.
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Rizks hehehe I guess you ...Rizks hehehe I guess you were trying to pick up WK last night?:P
Rizks said
yes lebaneseman i was trying ...yes lebaneseman i was trying to pick her up thinkin she was a gal, but unfortunately NOT....:(

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Rizks said
LoL DaRuDe..... yes who is ...LoL DaRuDe.....
yes who is the Lesbian here kindly raise ur both legs up and come forward.....:)

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superwoman said
Nic ...we are all involved in this , its not right its deceiving and unhealthy its either u gay or ur straight i have plenty of gay friends who has married boy friend’s with children , I would die knowing that my husband cheats on me with a man only because of ignorance lack of attention to this matter!
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Rizks heheheh ! ...Rizks heheheh ! tell them to put their legs up in the air :P
Qataria78 said
boyat ...well it sickness me to see those type of girls , and what makes me just get shocked is that their families are ok with it , ( they would say its better for her being with a girl , than rather being with a man that would spoil her reputation ) daammm that is sick , where is islam when they say that, did they forget that its against our religion . The problem is that they hang out with girls and do what ever they please and when they get married ( oh yeah they get married ) they pretend they are angels . The problem is that its not hormonal its just a trend and a fashion between girls nowadays . I am with you 100% super girl that they fake homosexuality for sexual relief until marriage . I have never seen a lesbian couple in qatar fighting for the right of marriage and its a load of crap , when a man comes knocking on her pearnts door she will be saying yes before her pearents do . I feel sorry for the guy who gets married to her not knowing what hes gone into , but he deserves it coz in his mind she has not gone or known a guy in her life . It sadness me and hope things will change
LeBaNeSeMaN said
Qataria78 good comment :) ...Qataria78 good comment :)
superwoman said
reply to Qataria78 ...WOW u totally sums up the thread plus ur the 1st Qatari girl who agrees with me thank you :-D
"Superwoman to the rescue"
"Superwoman to the rescue"
Olive said
It wouldn't be an issue if ...It wouldn't be an issue if men and women were allowed to mingle here. It's a situation you've created yourself. As for two women fighting to get married here, are you kidding? They'd be killed by their own families!
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
Qataria78 said
Superwoman your most welcome ...Trust me this issue has been crossing my mind and i wanted to just open up about it , its just that some married women are becoming boyas secretly and that is a totall shock for me and it sickness my stomach , so why get married if you think your a lesbian and your not satisfied with your marriage . well i am not the only qatari that agrees with you alot are , people who have been brought up the right way and know what is wrong or right wouldnt take that path , i know that most of these girls have personal issues and have family problems or either their mothers are to busy to watch her children and busy with her own life , trust me if i turned a boya my mum would put me in a room and kick the hell out of me even if i was a grown up adult LOOOOOOOOOOOOL .
Khawaga said
Sorry, folks, but true ...Sorry, folks, but true homosexuality is genetic meaning that some people are just naturally attracted to their own gender while others are not. A truly homosexual man will, when offered a relationship with a woman, prefer to have a relationship with a man. Then there is the sort of activities that Qataria78 describes which is much more prevalent when the genders are as segregated as they are in the Gulf. You can call it "prison gay" or whatever. Bottom line is, boys and girls will figure out how to find pleasure whether it is in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, a girlfriend-girlfriend relationship or by themselves.
ka3edwarach said
botyat ...Hi everyone,
i dont know regarding BOYAT, but i know BOUYS which i can see them everyday when i cruise with my boat.
regards,
Ka3ed-warach
Aziz
regards,
one_shot said
khawaga, if it is genetic, ...khawaga, if it is genetic, where is the study leading to this
it is a phcyco sickness.
simply this issue is affected by society and sexual experiences and and and...etc
if we extend out research to reach the animals "because we associate with them in this "lust" "
we will find that is very rare to find a homosexual animal which lead us to a fact approved by observing that the normal sexual relation should be between male and female, and any relation is "gay" relationship
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Qataria78 said
one_shot i agree withyou 10000000000000 billion % ...Your totally right , if its rare in animals that shows that human beings are just faking it :)
Olive said
Actually one-shot ...Actually one-shot homosexuality is just as common in the animal kingdom as it is in the human one. Almost every single species in the world that reproduces through sexual intercourse has homosexual animals in it. There are even homosexual fruit flies. Therefore, by observing nature, we can say that it's actually quite natural.
literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco
DaRuDe said
so any one found out ...who is the lesbian here right now???

whyteknight said
Why do all men love ...Why do all men love lesbians, Bloody ironic isn't it :P
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Rizks said
DaRuDe the mystery and ...DaRuDe the mystery and suspense is still ON...wait you pervert...hav patience !! :)

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